Marriage: A Precondition?

According to a study, people are the most happy when with friends, relatives and spouse in order. Well, this study is contradictory to my inner feelings these days. Relatives, I don’t actually feel happy meeting them rather I feel like running if any being sighted! Wooosh! If you’re an Indian and reading this, you’d know what I am talking about.

When you’re in your twenties you’re the most confused/ unsettled/ tensed about making your career, but hey this isn’t enought! This is the time when people start nagging you about marriage. Wait! What? I don’t even look like an adult yet!!!

Keeping parents aside for a little while and moving further talking about our “caring” relatives first. Who doesn’t love meeting their aunts, uncles, cousins and everyone who falls into this category! I do too but ever since I turned 23, I’ve been hearing a lot of things regarding me getting married to some nice guy who looks good and earns really good (a perfect match)! Yay! Why? Because obviously they want my “happiness”. Right?! Oh and not to forget I am getting old, as I will be turning 25 soon! Goodness Gracious, who’d want to marry an oldie! Just a reminder – I look like this (yes the old woman below) and I’d probably look the same at my 25th (dear men, excuse my wrinkles). ūüėČ


Talking about parents, well let me tell you a story of a guy who wants to marry his lover so he gathered the courage to tell his mother:

Son : Maa, I want to marry this girl I love

Maa: She’s not good for you. Forget her

Son : How can you say, you don’t even know her. I’ve known her for 3 years.

Maa : Who are you to decide who are you going to marry? I gave you birth, I fed you all these years and you’re gonna marry a girl of your choice?

Son: but you and dad had a love marriage too!

Maa : Maa se zubaan chalata hai? (Now you’re gonna talk back to your mother?)

*End of the story*

Most of the conversations with most of our parents end the same way (Most of them)! So now you’re left with two things : 1. You cannot marry the person you love! 2. If you don’t want to marry someone, nobody cares, you’ve got to marry anyway!

My parents have always been really chilled out about me not getting married early and stuff but whenever my mom talks to somebody may it be relatives or her friends she starts nagging me indirectly. It’s good that my cousins are getting good marriage proposals I am happy (as long as they’re not coming for me).

Since the day we are born our parents think about two things, our careers and our marriage someday! For me that day hasn’t come yet! And it’s going to take time. Maybe there are more out there who feel the same. I may not be succesful right now but I will be and then I might decide to marry someone I want to get married to or maybe not!

Why shall someone other than me decide when and with whom I am going to share my feelings and my bed with or who’s going to be the father to my kids (who don’t even exist).

Yes, I’m aging like everyone else but I am not getting old,¬†

I want to break free and and go to adventures Untold,

Let me figure out what I want in life,

Probably then I will know, in every situation how to survive,

And then it’s upto me to decide,

whether to be or not to be someone’s wife.

Marriage: A precondition?





The Everyday Look : Less loud- More Wearable

I have been watching a lot of makeup videos and one common thing about most of them is the bold makeup that can’t be worn everyday!

Well.. I thought about it and tried to come up with a look that wasn’t very loud and at the same time, wearable everywhere, may it be a lunch date, family dinner, an office party or a casual hangout with friends!

It’s winter season and it’s a time when you can wear bright colours and experiment with your look!

So here’s the look I chose to flaunt!


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For me eyebrows the life of any type of makeup or no makeup look. Hence, I always make sure that they look good as I am not one of those lucky humans blessed with great brows!

I tried to keep my brows as natural as I could so that it doesn’t look too much for an ‘everyday look’.

I have dry skin so I always put a lot of lotion before applying makeup on my face.

The second step is to apply a primer on your face. I used MAC’s mattifying primer here because I feel like it’s really light and leaves your skin feeling really soft.


The third step: Apply foundation and make sure it suits your skin tone. Don’t go way too lighter than your skin tone or too darker for it. I’m sure you dont wanna look like your head belongs to someone else ūüėú


Eyes! Do your eyes girl! I chose a light brownish and a purple color from my eye shadow palate! I chose these because I was confortable with these, you can use the same or anyone you like maybe pink or blue or red or something.


I chose light brown for the crease of my eye and purple for the inner lid and the outer lid as well. Put on your mascara and or if you like you can put on the lashes too! I didn’t feel like applying extra lashes because I wanted to keep it more simple. The eyes are done ‚úÖ

The fourth step for the face: apply concealer on under the eyes and I also like it on my nose a little bit. It’s always great if your concealer is lighter that your foundation. Here I used my MAC BB cream instead of a full coverage concealer because it was lighter! Blend it all in and you’re good to go!

On the cheeks, instead of a bronzer I just used a peach blush and I didn’t feel like contouring my whole face so i just contoured my nose with a contouring stick and on my upper cheeks applied a little shine (oh I love it). I used MAC’s powder shiner/ shimmer because I feel like it’s wearable everywhere and it stays for the whole day.


Oh my second best thing to do-coloring my lips. I used Huda matte liquid lipstick ‘Trophy Wife’ which is ¬†now available on nykaa, and then applied a pinch of light brownish eyeshadow to it.


So this is all it! This is my everyday wearable look at any event! What’s yours? Comment below, mail me, let me know About your everyday look and most importantly shine throughout life!


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I love winters but there is a dislike in me for this weather because it makes my skin really dry and non-glowy. Few days back my skin started developing some kind of pigmentation/marks.¬†Well all thanks to my pimples (that’s where the marks came from), now you know!


Viola! I saw this fabindia de-pigmentation cream¬†in one of the stores and well, you’ve got to do what you’ve got to do! ¬†Not that I had used this type of cream earlier. So I started using this twice a day i.e., in the morning and before going to bed in the night after washing my face with lukewarm water.


Within a week this showed really good results on my face. The pimple marks on my face reduced to almost 70-80% and I am still using it. fabindia’s got really good and skin friendly products plus this cream is for all skin types.¬†

A no filter before and after (the best I could do).

This product contains vitamin E which is really good for all skin types. ¬†It evens your skin tone and reduces the blemishes if any. The best part about it is that it doesn’t contain any bleach, which according to me is really good because bleach makes my skin more prone to pimples.

The MRP on the box is Rs. 490 which is well, ¬†not bad for the pocket! And if there is a discount, gosh you’re lucky (I didn’t get any).

Don’t forget to drink lots of water! Keep glowing and stay blemish free!

Happy winters! !

The Face of Depression

We all have been seeing a lot of effort that has been installed by social media and celebrities to make people grasp what depression is, how to deal with it and how to figure out if somebody is going through it. However, can we really figure out if somebody is going through depression? Is there really a “face” of it?

Let me try to rub some shimmer on this topic. Well.. according to my understanding you cannot really figure out by looking at a person if he/she is going through a phase of depression. Let us fathom this through some examples.


The person in the above image is obviously crying and we all can see it. Don’t we?! The moment we see a picture like this, many words run through our minds and depression is one of them. Now let us all scroll down our eyes to the picture below.


What do we see? A happy face, a happy person smiling right at you. Just like the picture we saw earlier, many words run through our minds and depression isn’t one of them. Of course! That’s where we go wrong. A Taylor Swift’s song just ran through my head (yeah out of nowhere) – “Hey Stephen I know looks can be deceiving but I know I saw a lot in you“. Looks surely are deceiving and hey we all mostly judge a book by its cover, accept it or not!

A happy face can be depressed and that’s the whole truth. You cannot look at a person and just point out “Oh this person is depressed”, doesn’t happen this way. You never know what’s going on behind that beautiful smile he/she always have, glued to their faces.

There are thousands of people who go through this, try to kill themselves and their loved ones, family, friends never had an idea about what they were going through.

Depression has no face, it is as dangerous as cancer. Anyone can be going through it even your closest ones and you won’t be able to realize. So keep talking to your people, ask about how they are doing. You never know what you are doing for somebody just by calling them on their phones or meeting them once in a week or once a month.

Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.
‚Äē¬†Henry Wadsworth Longfellow


Talk about it! Talk to someone and if you can’t, we are just an email away! Contact Us here! #noroomtojudge

What’s Your Job Designation?!

We all have heard the expression once (actually many) in our lives that everything which happens, happens for good. Well.. it is nothing but a comfort that we seek and get in these lines. Failure doesn’t come that easy, it has its own procedure. The procedure can differ from time to time and from situation to situation. For instance, you get hired – you are happy and then suddenly one day you are kicked out of the job that you loved in a single day. That’s when you comprehend, not everything in which you give your hundred percent adheres to you no matter how vigorously you try.¬†

If I talk about myself, I am not really a LinkedIn person but I thought to give it a try and trust me guys, I failed a big time. So.. I click on “Join” and the moment I do it, it felt like it’s not that hard for me to be a ‘LinkedIn person’. Perhaps, I was left to wonder for a long long time, I still am in dilemma.¬†Screenshot (2) ¬†

As soon as this page opened I was stung to confusion. I mean, I am a Mass Communication student, creative, I have good communication skills, I can write well (pretty much), I can give awareness training to people, I can consult and also I can create designs in multiple software (amazing! right? :p ). Yeah, I am pretty much done with the bragging but again.. what in the world should I select as my job designation? 


Ah! life gets tough here. Lucky are those who are ‘LinkedIn people’, I envy you guys. I am 24 and still so confused regarding my “job profile”¬† (this is what we call it). You know what? It’s okay. It is okay to be confused sometimes to reach where you want to. Do you know where you want to really reach? I know the answer, we all know the answer to this question, “Up There”.¬†

My “up there” cannot be decided by my LinkedIn¬†page and to be true I haven’t figured it out yet. But I will find a way and so will you. So what’s your “Up There”?¬†


Let me know in the comments below!!

Ellwin Makeup Face Base Foundation: Review

Since a long long time I wanted to buy a primer because I wanted to know all about the hype behind it. Every makeup video I saw included primer as a base so I bought one finally. It is called, Ellwin Makeup Face Base Foundation, super affordable and easily available on any of the nearest stores. 

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The best thing about this primer is that it is really very light and it leaves your skin feeling really soft. I don’t usually prefer applying foundation on my face because for some reasons it doesn’t blend well with my skin. So, as I was super excited to use the primer and see the results, I used it before applying the primer and the result was amazing. One can see the difference easily. ¬†

With primer and without

The foundation blended up nicely and it felt really light. You can also use it before applying your sunscreen. I would rate this product an 8 on a scale of 10. 

Choose your primer according to your skin. I have dry skin and it worked great for me though. 

Keep priming!¬†ūüėČ




Ma Earth Botanicals Hydrating Cream: Review

Hey, stunners! Hope you all are doing well and taking good care of your skin. Like many, I have a really dry skin and there comes a time when I can’t really go out without a cream which keeps me super hydrated. The only thing I hate about winters is the white “oh-so-beautiful” snow that grows naturally on your skin (I hate dryness).¬†

So earlier this week I added a new member to my sling bag, Ma Earth Botanicals Hydrating Cream. This cream is everything you will be needing this winter and I have already started using it because as I mentioned earlier, my skin is super duper dry. 


On a scale of 10, I would give this product 7 as it is not meant to be used in the summers. I used this for summers and I had pimples all over my face. Perhaps it is different for every skin type. 

Apart from that, you cannot deny that the best way to keep your skin hydrated is still our medieval remedy.. that is drinking a lot of water. In case you forget drinking water (like me), set an alarm on your phone so that you remember. 

Keep yourself well hydrated plus use Ma Earth Botanicals Hydrating Cream for healthier and dryness free skin. 

Keep stunning. ‚̧

C.A.L Detail Me Mascara: Review

Heya lovelies! How many of you cannot imagine your lives without a mascara? Oh.. I am sure one of you. I cannot imagine going out without my C.A.L Detail Me Mascara and there are so many good reasons behind it. For people like me who don’t have long and thick eyelashes, a mascara can do wonders if you choose the right one. ūüėČ

Without wasting any time I am gonna tell you a not so secret-y secret for heavenly looking eyelashes:

C.A.L Detail Me Mascara


It comes in a cool, rough golden colored packaging which is hard to resist.


Charcoal Black Color

Oh, I love how black is the color and the texture of this mascara. If you want your lashes to be as black as your soul..¬†this is surely the one for you. ūüėČ


Sleek Flexible Applier

Oh, how I love the brush of this mascara. It gives the finest strokes making your every eyelash stand out.



Well.. this worked quite well.. for me and now I cannot step out of my house without this magic wand. ūüėČ

You can always give it shot if you’re looking forward to changing your mascara. ūüôā ūüėõ

..and this is me flaunting my mascara ūüėõ

Happy Eye Flaunting Ladies! ‚̧



Black Stilettos, Old Women and Choices

So I walked in this footwear store and let my eyes sweep in the vicinity to have their treat, which was due on me from a long time. My eyes, oh well I had a bad squint and my feet were tickling with joy to get inside those shiny new shoes (any of them). Boots, Pumps, Loafers, Flat slippers, sneakers, stilettos, wedges, in every shade of red, blue, green, yellow, beige, black etc. For some unknown reasons, I have an evergreen attraction towards full-length black boots. I usually prefer footwear with minimal heel perhaps for a change my eyes glued to these 6-inch shiny black stilettos.29d681f64fc5cb9db8ab202f3e80ac57
While my heart was going through a laborious¬†time convincing my mind¬†to go for the heels, there walked in some women aged between grandma¬†and grandma’s friends!¬†There I was¬†standing on one side of the shelf full of shoes and on the other, were they. Looking for the same thing but differently. As I started with the shiny and fancy ones they started with the least fancy and shiny ones with no heels at all. Our choice was way too divergent.
As I continued to accolade the pair that I had in my hands, the lady came up to me and homaged me for having a satisfying choice. I could see in her eyes that she loved the pair as much as I did, but there was something that was holding her back from purchasing those. I insisted her to give it a shot, but she denied saying that she was too old for it. There might be many justifications such as the age factor, maybe she thought she cannot pull them off at this age or what the society would say. Yeah, it’s true! People judge you by any way they can, may it be your clothes, shoes, your tattoos, and even your hair.
The shine in her eyes for those stilettos left me wondering for hours and I decided since then that I would never in my life, compromise with the little things which I want to do or buy for myself that make me feel happy. For a woman, the love for shoe and clothes can never succumb. She surely was the youngest at heart amongst any of us present there, it was just the wrinkles on her face that stopped her from feeling young from the outside.
Our society’s blueprint has been set as such that we say it or not, at some point in time in our lives, when the years pass and we age, we feel trapped in our own body as if it belongs to someone else. We want to enjoy, have fun again but something just stops us. According to me, it’s the fear of chattering lip gloss mouths and wandering eyes.
Why do we stop enjoying our lives at first? Why do we stop doing things that make us feel good, sanguine and happy? Since when have we started to feel cornered in our own skin? Since when we have drawn this thick line of a “to do” and “not to do” list and formed these age groups when it comes to happiness?! When did it start? There is a starting point for everything.
My mom doesn’t wear bright reds, she thinks it is not her “age” to wear bright colors like that, ignoring the fact how beautiful she looks in it and how much she loves it.
I don’t know if this blog post makes sense to any of you reading this but I hope somebody somewhere reading this could relate to it. Footwear is such a small thing but you know as they say, small things that can make you the happiest, those are the things that count in life. We never know what the other person is going through in their life, for us, our matters and troubles are gigantic.
So the lady and her friends left with boxes of the footwear “matching” their “age”, and for me, how could have I caved-in? I walked off with the same pair I wanted to and with the hope of all of us, breaking free from all the barriers that we have spawned.
Happy Freedom People!


Bottom Hugging Pants and Naked Legs

Since¬†the comments on Priyanka Chopra’s photograph with Honourable Prime Minister broke the internet, it became mandatory for me to write this post. This substantiates that no matter how successful you are as a person, you would always be judged by what you wear as a woman. No matter how covered you are from the upper half of your body if your bottom half is showing…Well, Lady.. may the good Lord save you and deliver you from people (Amen).

It was the first day at the office and I wore a beautiful blue and black formal dress covered from my neck to my knees. Unaware of what was coming my way (to make it sound more dramatic), I sat on my desk feeling confident and happy about the new beginning. Later that day, I was called up by my boss in his office explaining to me why I shouldn’t be wearing a dress like that in office. The whole matter was about the people in the office not being able to digest my beautiful hairless toned legs.

My boss is a smashingly cool human but at that point of time, I was taken aback by the comments made on my clothes. Later I understood what he meant. All he wanted for me was to stay protected / safe and to be away from those meandering eyes, for all one knows, Delhi is so unsafe. But why cannot I wear what I want to? In this hot weather, I too want to feel the cold breeze and the air from the fan playing with my sleek legs.

Well.. we cannot overlook the fact that we live in an imposter society where you can wear a bottom nestling trouser, legging, long skirt which tightly hugs your buttocks whereas, showing your calf and ankle is a hell no. Viola! You are dishonoring the Prime Minister. What about all the aunties who would die to see you wrapped up in a saree showing off your belly, your sexy waist? On the other hand, you wearing a crop top is something they cannot abide.

I can go on and on with this. The point is that everything comes down to just one thing, “A Pair of Beautiful Hairless Legs”. Come on you people, they’re just legs, part of your body which help you to walk, run, sit and stand. The only difference between a female’s leg and a male’s leg is the hair which comes with it. Females wax/ shave/ remove them and guys don’t (well.. nowadays many shave¬†too). Oh! not to forget their masculinity is in their body hair. ūüėõ

For those who think that rape “happens” (it just happens) because of a woman’s clothing, the recent assault on a woman covered in Burqa from head to toe must have been a mirage because you know what they say – ¬†“No Skin Show, No Rape”.

Happy Leg Flaunting Ladies! ‚̧

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